spent the day in bed with AL. sort of a perfect day, nothing to care about. throughout, her upstairs neighbor quietly sang. it sounded like a prayer in arabic or hebrew. she is genuinely warm, affectionate, sexually responsive. i'm getting some of the uh oh's, but I can keep it in check. we both treat it casually. i figure at some point she might drift off, but who can say. that is really the best point of view; it makes these experiences wonderful. meet someone, their body fits into yours correctly, lift off, travel an unknown distance, rocky landing, dust yourself off and show up for it again.